Video Description: Relationship problems? I've found the solution: just make them listen. You can't argue while gagged, and the sex has been phenomenal. The best way to completely take charge of your SO. With my BF strapped up, the push/pull between us is now only when he's strung up for me to torment. Never again will we fight, because anytime I want something, I can just make him do it for me or torment until he does. It really works!